ladylikebehavior:

Sooooooo you’re saying you read the books? And forced no outside opinion on what was written? The characters you read are pretty much the characters you envision? You spend a lot of time daydreaming about the boys hanging out together, solving crimes and harassing Mrs. Hudson and you think it makes total sense that John goes off and gets married someday? You agree with the creator of the work that what he wrote was in fact what he wrote?

K, thanks for sharing.

Ask Korea. No one ships John and Sherlock quite like the Korean trailers for Sherlock. 

I’m just saying. Also, read this; it’s a rather eloquent defense. No seriously, it may very well answer all of your questions and some you didn’t have, and alleviate those strong irritations you are having. 

Seriously.